Wednesday, 9 March 2016

Colonialism in Africa: an evaluation with African novels

In his essay, the Ambiguous Adventure in the Cameroonian Novel: Mongo Beti’s ‘Mission to Kala’ and Ferdinand Oyono’s ‘Houseboy,’ Chikaodiri O. Okpara asserts that, the colonial experience by most African countries has emerged as an indelible landmark in the history of the continent. In Chinua Achebe’s Things Fall Apart the white men send in missionaries to instill a religion that encourages peace at the beginning of colonization, because if they can change the fundamental beliefs of the tribe, then they can control the natives more easily.
The concept of colonialism is when a supposed stronger country rules a supposed weaker one and then establishes its trade and society there. The idea of colonization is to quietly gain a foothold in the country and then move in and take over when the country has been destabilized enough to be ruled by foreign forces. The European colonists came to Africa solely to exploit it and split its values. To a great extent, African colonization was as a result of stories told about Africa and its peoples.
As a documentation of the colonial experiences of African societies, African writers were given to creative exploration of the harsh methodology of the whites meted on African societies.
Ngugi Wa Thiong’O is one of the African writers who dealt critically with the relationship between Africa and the Western colonists. Weep Not Child deals with the Mau Mau uprising and the dispossession of an entire people from their ancestral land. This action reminds us of something: that the easiest way colonialism gained foothold on African soil was by dispossession of the continent’s values. A situation where a man comes into another man’s hut and defecates. Ngugi reveals in Weep Not Child where six men are dragged out of their houses and executed in the woods.
In reviewing colonialism in Africa, one has to bear in mind Oyono’s assertion that, ‘everybody tells his own little story about Africa to refute and demonstrate that the African is a child or a fool.’ Stories told of the continent were merely to demonstrate the primitiveness of its societies. Administrator Vidal in Beti’s The Poor Christ of Bomba sees Africa as a place filled with monsters. Hence he says, ‘…I always dreamt of an Africa filled with monsters, but the truth is far stranger than the fiction.’ To compare the fictitious belief of an Africa filled with monsters and the reality of the ‘stranger’ thing he has seen is an erroneous and gravy factor to describe the continent.
In Houseboy and The Old Man and the Medal, Oyono portrays colonialism as undermining and suppressing indigenous culture and its institutions. Meka is dispossessed of his land – or rather dispossessed himself of his land – to the colonial missionaries, as a result of the suppressing hypnotism by the colonists. ‘And now lives in a small wretched hut in the village which has given its name to the mission and lies at the foot of the Christian cemetery.’
In the extreme measures used in tormenting the natives, Gullet in Houseboy sees Africans as people with iron heads, that when he tortures them and they don’t scream, he hits them on the head with a gun. A white doctor’s conversation with Gullet about Tounde explains:
‘We’ll see about that tomorrow,’ said the white doctor.
‘Meanwhile, what about his temperature…?’
He looked at my chart.
‘…only 103 – that’s not serious for them. He won’t slip through your fingers,’ he said, to reassure Gullet. (Oyono: 121)

The white doctor’s view of the natives is on the grounds that they have extra lives, extra temperature, and that the things capable of killing the whites a hundred times cannot kill the natives. The commandant’s wife says,
You look as if you find it a drudgery. Oh of course we are very satisfied with you... you have no faults, you are always punctual, you are a conscientious worker but you haven’t got that joy one finds in African workers... you give the impression that you are doing a houseboy’s job while waiting for something else to come along. (55)
The commandant’s wife does not see the natives as people with hope. She sees them as people who are only good enough to squat on the floor while they (the whites) step on and climb to the top. Toundi finally escapes from the colonial measures into Guinea, where he meets neo-colonialism and dies. Perhaps, Oyono’s point is that Africa cannot escape entirely from the shadows of the colonial masters.
Ngugi’s Weep Not Child and Beti’s The Poor Christ of Bomba portray more on the hard measures of colonial administration. The trial of Jomo Kenyatta while protesting for his right, and his subsequent execution; Ngotho and Njoroge (a father and a son) are brutally beaten for their innocence. More so, at Bomba, the people work and die and the Father goes many times a day to confess the dying. Administrator Vidal gives Father Drumont a concept:
Absolutely! You will protect them spiritually. You will tell them: ‘My dear children, you must accept the sufferings of this vale of tears. In death, you will find your reward. (35)
Father Drumont does not accept this directly, or rather immediately, but he advises a poor old woman who has come to complain of poverty to try harder and pay her ‘church tax’ before he confesses her.
This explains the reality of the real intention of the Christian colonial missionary journey in Africa, as contained in King Leopold 11 of Belgium’s letter to colonial missionaries:
And make sure that niggers never become rich. Sing every day that it’s impossible for the rich to enter heaven. Make them pay tax each week at Sunday mass, and use the money supposed for poor to build flourishing business centres.



Tuesday, 8 March 2016

7 Reasons You Are Not as Successful as You Should Be


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If you’re not quite where you expected to be, you probably spend time wondering why.
Focus on some common causes–so you can figure out why you are not as successful as you want to be–and start addressing them.
Here are 7 common problems:
1. You don’t believe in yourself.
If you don’t believe you can succeed, you won’t make a serious attempt. Sometimes you have to make yourself believe you can do something to realize you actually can.
2. You engage in negativity.
A negative thinker sees a difficulty in every opportunity. Instead, become a positive thinker–one who sees an opportunity in every difficulty.
3. You follow the path of least resistance.
Just because you aren’t struggling doesn’t mean you’re succeeding. Every great success requires some kind of struggle. Remember, success won’t come to you–you have to go out and make it happen.
4. You’ve lost sight of your goals.
If you want to succeed, you need to set your goals high and resolve not to stop until you get there. The first step is deciding that you’re not going to stay where you are.
5. You spend too much time sitting around.
Laziness is the secret ingredient that goes into most failures.
6. You are waiting for perfect.
The real world doesn’t reward perfectionism; it rewards people who get things done.
7. You are easily distracted.
We can always find a distraction if we look for one. But distractions destroy actions. The best we can do is starve our distractions and feed our focus.

Seven Secrets of Kissing You Never Knew


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Kissing is by far the most sensual and exciting thing you can do with another person. In a way, a kiss is even more intimate than sex.
When you’re completely engaged with another person’s face — your lips, bodies, and minds connecting — you have the potential to create a moment that’s way more intense than a few mere thrusts of the hips.
Here are 7 Tips to make every kiss unforgettable
Tip #1: Let him initiate.
Most modern men believe in a woman’s right to vote, a woman’s right to choose, and a woman’s right to take control in the bedroom whenever she feels like it. But surprisingly, when it comes to kissing, most of our guys preferred to play things more traditionally.
Tip #2: Keep your eyes wide shut.
If the kiss is worth it, then the eyes are definitely closed, you feel every bit of the sensation when you let your brain focus on your mouth.
Tip #3: Open up and say, “ahhh!”
Everyone would agree that an open-mouthed kiss is usually the most sensual.
Tip #4: Kiss with your hands.
Every good kisser knows that you need to use more than just your mouth to create a make-out session that’s unforgettable.
Tip #5: Get a little kinky.
For adventurous kissers, there are some moves you can make that will completely rock his world. Just beware — not all men are into the same things, so feel him out first.
Tip #6: Drop the balm on him.
Maintenance is key. If you know you’re heading for seven minutes in heaven, make them kissable by prepping with lip balm or gloss.
Tip #7: Choose wisely.
For a kiss to be truly great, there has to be both a physical and a mental connection between the two people.

Modern-Day Biblical Samson Emerges In Gaza


Palestinian Mohammad Baraka, 20, nicknamed by people as Gaza Samson, has knives dropped on his stomach as he exercises in Deir al-Balah in the central Gaza Strip March 5, 2016.  REUTERS/Mohammed Salem


Mohammad Baraka, a 20-year-old with the Biblical nickname used a rope around his chest to pull a 15-tonne petrol tanker.
“Go Samson, go!” yelled the crowd in the Palestinian enclave, cheering on him after displaying his potential.
Baraka, who prefers to be known as “The Incredible’’, perhaps because he lacks the original Samson’s long hair, has been putting on displays in his hometown.
In the past two years, he has being earning a reputation as the strongest man of Deir al-Balah in the Gaza Strip.
“I was confident and there was power inside me which I started to develop,” said the body-builder and hotel management student.
Traffic came to a halt in Deir al-Balah during the weekend performance as motorists and children on their way to school stopped to watch Baraka perform.
He towed the yellow fuel truck. As an encore, by dragging a water tanker by his teeth for about 50 meters (yards).
Baraka also wowed his audience by lying on his back and having knives dropped on his bare stomach from a height of one meter (three feet).
Some friends used hammers to shatter bricks placed on his chest.
Kamal, Baraka’s father and a philosophy teacher said, “His power is hidden inside him, it has nothing to do with muscles and training.”
He added that some people believed in him in the beginning, others had their doubts but everyone was amazed.
Mohammad’s power can be related to the Biblical Samson who was an Israelite warrior, as in the Old Testament.
Samson toppled a Philistine temple in Gaza, killing himself and a crowd that had demanded their captured and blinded enemy be brought from prison to entertain them.

Kim Kardashian Posts Another Nude Pic After Hitting Back at Critics in Twitter Rant


 


Kim Kardashian Posts Another Nude Photo After Slamming Critics
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Kim Kardashian West is feeling liberated – again.

The 35-year-old reality star received backlash after posting a nude photo to social media Sunday night. She subsequently silenced her critics in a Twitter rant worthy of husband Kanye West.

But Kardashian West didn't stop there. Early on Tuesday, the Keeping up with the Kardashians star posted yet another naked photo with the simple caption, "#liberated."





In the series of feisty tweets, the reality star hit back at Bette Midler, Chloe Grace Moretz and Piers Morgan, all of whom criticized her NSFW selfie.





"Hey @piersmorgan never offer to buy a married woman clothes. thats on some ashley madison type shit #forresearch," Kardashian West, 35, tweeted to the television personality who earlier offered to purchase the mother of two an outfit, after he acknowledge her husband's repubted $53 million debt.

Which, in case you were curious, the Keeping up with the Kardashians star doesn't seem too concerned about.


Eight killed as Fulani herdsmen attack more Benue communities

MAKURDI – At least eight persons have been reportedly killed in a fresh attack on Benue communities by suspected Fulani herdsmen who Tuesday invaded parts of Logo local government area of state. 

The attack is coming on the heels of the Agatu massacre where over 300 person were killed in over one week of sustained offensive on Agatu communities by suspected Fulani mercenaries.

Vanguard learned that in this latest attack,the marauders invaded four villages including Tse Chia, Tse Nhumbe, Deghkia and Ngorukgan at about 2am, shooting sporadically and burning down houses and huts in the affected communities.
According to the source, “it was a coordinated attack on the four villages by the well armed herdsmen who stormed our villages in large number, around 2am and shooting sporadically.
“It was the sound of their gunshot that woke everyone from sleep resulting in a stampede and the gunning down and macheting of about 8 persons though the causality figure maybe more than that because many person are still unaccounted for just as scores sustained serious injuries.
“As I speak with you the affected villages have been deserted and the invaders have taken over and are razing in the ancestral homes of the people who have fled to Anyii, Ugba and Abeda towns, in their thousands, for fear of being killed.
“It’s a pathetic situation, the development has inflicted untold hardship on women, children and the elderly who are trekking long distances in search of safe haven and awaiting the intervention of security operatives.”
When contacted, the Benue state Police spokesman, Assistant Superintendent, ASP, Moses Yamu said he was yet to receive details of the development.

Source: Vanguard

Ronaldinho is the best player in history – Nani


Ronaldinho is the best player in history – NaniFenerbahce winger Luis Nani has revealed his belief that Ronaldinho is the greatest footballer in history.
Speaking during a question and answer session with the Europa League’s official Facebook page, the Portugal international stated that, at the peak of his powers, the Brazilian had no equal.
“The best player in history? Ronaldinho,” Nani said. “Because when he was at his best nobody could compare.
“He always had a smile on his face as well. He had skill, scored fantastic goals and put magic into the game.”
The former Manchester United attacker was also quizzed on his time with club legend Sir Alex Ferguson, and the 29-year-old had no qualms about naming the Scot the best manager he has ever worked under.
“Working with Sir Alex is something I’ll never forget,” he went on. “He’s the best I’ve worked with.
“I learnt so much from him on the training ground. Even today, talking about him is inspirational and a motivation. I’m so happy to be part of his story.
“He is someone I’ll remember all my life.”

Rihanna's 'Work' Still At Number One, While Kelly Clarkson Hits The Top Ten



Kelly Clarkson performs at Mandalay Bay Events Center at Mandalay Bay Resort in Las Vegas, NV on August 15, 2015.

Rihanna’s Drake collaborative single “Work” tops the Hot 100 this week for a third consecutive frame, and it is poised to stay there for a little while. The lead Anti single originally debuted at number nine, and from there it has grown every week (or remained at number one, as there is nowhere else to go but down). The track is also helping keep the album alive, as this week it is standing at number three on the Billboard 200.

Justin Bieber’s “Love Yourself” is steady at number two, but apparently it is pretty far behind Rihanna’s latest chart-topper. “Yourself” is the third official single from the Canadian pop star’s sixth album, Purpose, and it is his third career number one hit. The song was an international smash before it caught on here in the States, but now that it has, fans can’t seem to get enough of it.

At number three this week is Twenty One Pilots and their breakout smash, “Stressed Out”. The song, and its accompanying album Blurryface, have both become surprise hits with unexpected longevity. The album was originally released back in May, when it debuted atop the albums chart. Since then, it has continued to sell well week after week, and for a while it looked as though “Out” would make it to number one one the Hot 100, but it has been blocked time and time again, and after reaching the runner up position, it now looks like that might be its peak.

Rising one position, Flo Rida’s “My House” is now on the inside of the top five. Before this week, it had only made it as high as number five, but the track is growing. “House” switches positions with Justin Bieber’s “Sorry”, which was the second number one from Purpose. It has thus far spent its entire charting life within the top ten, and it will likely stick around for some time to come, as it is proving to be one of the biggest pop hits this year (even though it was officially released later in 2015).

Just four weeks ago, former One Direction member Zayn’s debut solo single “Pillowtalk” started its charting life atop the Hot 100, becoming just the twenty fifth track to do so in history. Since then, the song has bounced around the top ten, never leaving the territory, but also never reclaiming its throne. This week, it is at number six. Immediately behind him is rapper G-Eazy and singer Bebe Rexha. Their hit, “Me, Myself, & I” is a non-mover at number seven.

New at number eight this week is Kelly Clarkson and her latest smash, “Piece By Piece”. The song is the title track from her latest number one album, and it serves as the third official single. The pop singer performed the track on American Idol about a week ago, and the stripped down reworking was so emotionally charged that she had to stop several times to compose herself. A video of the performance went viral, and people have been buying and streaming the track ever since. With a new, piano-driven version of the track available, the song enters the chart at number eight.

European band Lukas Graham (yes, that’s the name of the group) has captured its first top ten this week by moving their song “7 Years” to number nine. The song has already become a smash in plenty of other countries around the world, and now it is getting its due here in America. Rounding out the top ten this week is DNCE’s debut hit “Cake By The Ocean”. The Joe Jonas-lead new group is enjoying real success with the dance-rock track, which has now spent several weeks within the region.

Delta deputy speaker donates N10m to students

The Deputy Speaker, Delta State House of Assembly, Rt. Hon. Friday Osanebi, has donated N10 million to students in the state in the first tranche of his foundation’s 2016 scholarship award for post-primary undergraduate students.
The gesture, according to Osanebi, was in line with the philosophy of his foundation, which was poised to raise leaders and empower the people.
At the occasion, parents and guidance were stunned as the foundation gave out cheques and award letters to sixty 100 Level students from various institutions of higher learning in the country.
Among those that also received cheques yesterday were 40 post-primary school students, who were also given packages of textbooks and other educational materials that are to be delivered to the students in their schools.
Each of the beneficiaries received a cheque of N100, 000 each, while the best two students went home with N150, 000.
The secondary school students were represented in the award ceremony by their principals, who also collected their cheques on their behalf.

James Bond's new Aston Martin sells for $3.5 million


James Bond's new car unveiled
James Bond's new car unveiled

It's the ultimate supercar for a super-fan: James Bond's newest ride sold at auction for $3.5 million on Thursday.

The price zoomed past expectations set by Christie's auction house. They estimated the Aston Martin DB10 would go for between $1.4 and $2.1 million.
Christie's didn't identify the buyer.
The new owner won't be able to take it for a spin. The Aston Martin DB10 doesn't have any necessary road certifications because it was created solely for the latest 007 film "Spectre."
Christie's laid out these issues in the fine print, saying it "makes no promise that the vehicle is of satisfactory quality, fit for purpose or roadworthy."
Still, Aston Martin says the car could hit a top speed around 190 miles per hour.
Aston Martin created 10 customized cars for the "Spectre" film, but this is the only one that was available for sale. The other nine cars will not be sold to the public.
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Aston Martin created the DB10 solely for the James Bond film "Spectre".

Proceeds from the DB10 sale are being donated to Doctors Without Borders.
The supercar was auctioned off alongside a range of other "Spectre" items, including the secret agent's Tom Ford suit and Omega wristwatch.


If you couldn't afford to bid on the DB10, consider waiting for the DB11, which is expected to be unveiled later this year. The price range shouldn't stray too far from its predecessor -- the DB9 -- which starts around $200,000.
Inside a Bond villain's car
Inside a Bond villain's car
The villian's car from "Spectre," a Jaguar C-X75, is not available for sale at all. The hybrid concept car was unveiled at the 2010 Paris Motor Show, but never went into full production. Seven Jaguar C-X75s were created for the film.

Erin Andrews Awarded $55 Million in Lawsuit Over Nude Video at Hotel


Erin Andrews Awarded Judgment Over Video

A jury awarded the Fox sportscaster Erin Andrews $55 million in her lawsuit against a Nashville hotel and a stalker after she was secretly videotaped naked several times in 2008, according to reports.
Ms. Andrews had sued for $75 million, accusing the companies that manage the Nashville Marriott, West End Hotel Partners and Windsor Capital Group, of negligence leading to emotional distress and invasion of privacy, according to court documents. Ms. Andrews had also sued the Illinois man who filmed her, Michael David Barrett.
The jurors found Mr. Barrett, who pleaded guilty and served more than two years in prison for traveling across state lines to videotape Ms. Andrews multiple times, responsible for 51 percent of the blame, according to The Associated Press. The hotel companies were found to be responsible for about $27 million.
During her testimony last week, Ms. Andrews, who worked for ESPN at the time the secret videos were taken, said that she had been constantly reliving the ordeal and that she felt “so ashamed” after discovering that nude images of her were available on the Internet.
“This happens every day of my life,” she said. “Either I get a tweet, or somebody makes a comment in the paper, or somebody sends me a still of the video to my Twitter, or somebody screams it at me in the stands. And I’m right back to this.”
In a statement posted to Twitter after the verdict on Monday, Ms. Andrews thanked the court and the jury.
“The support I’ve received from the people of Nashville has been overwhelming,” she said.
Mr. Barrett, who has admitted to filming other women without their knowledge, said in a previously taped deposition that he used a hacksaw to alter the peepholes of Ms. Andrews’s hotel rooms in Nashville and Columbus, Ohio. The footage was put online in 2009 and shared widely.
Ms. Andrews contended that the hotel should have told her that a man had inquired if she was staying at the hotel.
“This could’ve been stopped,” she testified. “The Nashville Marriott could’ve just called me and said, ‘We’re putting this man that requested to be next to you, is this O.K.?’ And I would’ve called the cops and we would’ve gotten him. I’m so angry. I’m so mad.”
She said ESPN had required her to do an interview about the case before she could return to work as a college football sideline reporter; she chose to tell her story to Oprah Winfrey, who is a survivor of sexual abuse.
Other female sports reporters told Sports Illustrated that Ms. Andrews’s experience had prompted them to take extra precautions when traveling, a sentiment shared by Dana O’Neil of ESPN.

Source: NYT

Maria Sharapova loses endorsement deals after failing drug test


Maria Sharapova admits to failed drug test

Nike and other companies are suspending major endorsement deals with Russian tennis star Maria Sharapova after she admitted failing a drug test at this year's Australian Open.

Sharapova, who has long been the world's highest-paid female athlete, said Monday she'd been taking the drug meldonium since 2006 and didn't realize it was declared a banned substance by the World Anti-Doping Agency at the start of 2016.
"We are saddened and surprised by the news about Maria Sharapova," Nike  said in a statement. "We have decided to suspend our relationship with Maria while the investigation continues."
Automaker Porsche, owned by Volkswagen, said Tuesday it was postponing all planned sponsorship activities with Sharapova. Swiss watch brand TAG Heuer, part of the LVMH (LVMHF) group, said it was suspending negotiations with the tennis player about renewing a sponsorship deal that ended in December.
The International Tennis Federation said it is provisionally banning Sharapova "pending determination of the case." The usual penalty for first-time offenders is a two-year ban.
Meldonium is designed to improve the flow of blood around the body, and is often used to treat heart issues. It can also improve patients' moods and make them become more active, according to the U.S. National Library of Medicine.
Sharapova said she began taking the drug for a magnesium deficiency and irregular EKGs, which can signal problems with the heart's electrical activity. Her family also has a history of diabetes, she added.

The 28-year-old Russian star is the latest high-profile athlete to create a public relations headache for Nike. Last month, the company dropped the boxing champion Manny Pacquiao after he made offensive comments about gay people.
The company has cut ties with other scandal-hit international stars, like Oscar Pistorius and Lance Armstrong. But it famously kept its contract with golfer Tiger Woods after accounts of his infidelity made the news.
Sharapova has deep ties with Nike, which has a whole collection of tennis clothing tied to her name. Her current eight-year deal with the company is reported to be worth $70 million.
In an interview with CNN in August, she said she had been in partnership with Nike since she was 11 years old.
"I came from having to cut my T-shirts because there was not a junior line at the time and rolling up my skirts to now being able to design my on-court looks for Nike," Sharapova said. "And that involvement and that relationship has really evolved."
source: cnn

Dr Eva Carneiro Wants ‘a Public Apology’ From Mourinho


Mourinho Confirms Dr Carneiro’s Demotion


Former Chelsea doctor Eva Carneiro and her one-time employers were described as being ‘far apart financially’ as her legal fight against the club looked to be heading for a public tribunal today.
Dr Carneiro is claiming constructive dismissal against Chelsea, after she left her role in September following a high profile row with former Blues manager Jose Mourinho.
He branded her ‘impulsive and naive’ after she ran onto the pitch to treat midfielder Eden Hazard in the dying minutes of a match.
Lawyers for the three parties spent around six-and-a-half hours in discussions today, but are believed to have failed to reach a financial deal – meaning details of the 42-year-old’s acrimonious departure from Chelsea could be made public.
Dr Carneiro refused to speak to the media as she left the employment tribunal building in Croydon accompanied by her husband, polar explorer Jason De Carteret, but shook her head briefly when asked if a resolution had been reached.
After Monday’s private hearing at the London South Employment Tribunal, Dr Carneiro’s barrister Mary O’Rourke QC refused to be drawn on whether a deal had been reached with representatives from Chelsea, saying: ‘Mediation proceedings are confidential.’
The dispute over her departure from the club is now likely to stretch into the summer, with the case scheduled to proceed to a full employment tribunal in June.
That would be held in public and could see Mourinho, Dr Carneiro and representatives from Chelsea called to appear as witnesses.
Documents including text messages and emails sent by Mourinho and Carneiro are likely to be used as evidence – an embarrassing prospect which Chelsea would have wanted to avoid.
Earlier today, Dr Carneiro’s barrister, Mary O’Rourke QC, told ITV News that she was not close to making a deal with the club over compensation.
‘We’re not expecting a resolution today,’ She said. ‘The two sides are so far apart financially.
‘And we want Mr Mourinho to make a public apology.’
Dr Carneiro is demanding ‘substantial damages’ according to her lawyer.
Mourinho, who was sacked by Chelsea in December after a disastrous string of results, did not attend the private hearing today.
However, he could be called to appear as a witnesses at a full tribunal, and, if summoned, would be obliged to attend, facing a possible fine of £1,000 if he does not show up.

Every Woman is a Goddess



This post is updated.

The traditional definition of a goddess is a female deity with supernatural powers. The female image is associated with abundance, productivity, and growth. From ancient mythology, the earth is said to be female and before creation takes place, the heavens must meet the earth. In Greek mythology, creation would seem to have begun through Gaea, the earth goddess.
In the scripture, the Old Testament’s creation myth, it is said that God created man using the earth, and after that, he saw man would not be complete without a female. Thus, he made a female to be at man’s side. It will interest you to know that the intended helping-hand idea with which a woman was created by God was not to help man in bed neither was it to help him in the kitchen. It was to make man complete; to help him achieve more. Research will tell us that there are more independent women in the world than there are men; more women who stay and succeed alone than men. What this means is that women are more likely to be successful alone than men. As the old saying goes, there’s always a woman behind every successful man. But the tragedy with this fact is that the world does not seem to realize this. Society has, from the beginning, defined the feminine gender as incapable of so many things, and the feminine gender has accepted this corrupt idea without a fight. If you think this is not true, ask a few independent women who have reached the pinnacle of success. I bet you will learn they became successful with little or no help from men.
Be reminded of the traditional definition of a goddess, regardless that the male counterpart can also be defined in the same line. A deity stands as a support to man, and from which one can consult. Ancient Indian mythology ascribed the feminine image to a tree. A woman grows up to produce fruits as does a tree. The term deflowered, which is related with a woman’s loss of virginity is a result of the beauty, growth, and budding that are all interconnected between a female and a flower. No man ever ends up a failure when a true woman is beside him. By ‘true’ I mean a woman who loves him genuinely. The idea of treating a woman with care and respect is not borne out of passion or the notion that they are weak. The idea is borne out of the fact that you get the best out of them when you don’t maltreat them. That’s why a sad and broken woman can do more harm than a ruthless man.
More so, the presence of a woman around a man spurs him. It will serve well to note that in both Greek and Hindis mythology, the deities of love and prosperity are goddesses, Aphrodite and Lakshmi respectively. Fortuna Copia is also Greek’s goddess of fortune and wealth. People are not always consciously aware of the unexplainable strength in a man when a woman is around him. Men are more moved and inspired to do more and more when a woman is involved, and when the case is that of love, the strength and inspiration becomes an unquenchable flame from the inside. This is not always the nature of man; rather it is the ‘helping’ supernatural goddess of the woman that gives him strength. Without love, everything else is meaningless. However strong a man wishes to be, his soul is often not at peace without a woman’s genuine love. Life for him is incomplete.
Furthermore, motherhood is another aspect of this. In Igbo tradition, the name ‘Nneka’ which means ‘mother is greater’ did not just come to be. Ancient men of Igbo society may have had another explanation for this name without realizing the myth behind it. It can be proved that a child always feels more comfortable around its mother, even if the father is heavily built. It will also interest you to know that half a man’s success is sourced from his mother’s love and prayers in addition to his wife’s or any other woman that cares about him.
About sex, ancient tradition considers it to be sacred. Sometimes, the kind of woman a man has sex with either makes or mars him. The act of mating with a female is divine, through which life is brought into the world. Sex is not just about the pleasure and fun. It is more about having contact with divinity; it is an act of worship and with it, the female gains the male’s power. In most cases, a man is advised against random sex because he might end up mating with a goddess capable of ruining him.
However, the problem with these ideas is that most people are not aware of them. 

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Family suspects foul play in Ocholi, wife, son’s death



The Federal Government has promised to investigate how the driver of the Sport Utility Vehicle, in which the Minister of State for Labour, Mr. James Ocholi (SAN); his wife, Blessing; and son, Joshua, died along the Kaduna-Abuja Expressway on Sunday, was employed.
The Minister of Labour, Dr. Chris Ngige, stated this on Monday while responding to the call by the relatives of the deceased, including Ocholi’s uncle, Abdallah Aliu; another relative, Paul Audu; and the immediate younger sister to the late Blessing, who did not want her name mentioned, that the driver be investigated.
“The acting Permanent Secretary is here, she is the one in charge of human resources. We will find out and investigate it. We will do, but I can tell you that our personal drivers are known to us and we both keep our personal drivers. We will find out and investigate this,” Ngige said.
The Ocholi family is working on some theories concerning the accident.
The family members believed that the driver of a car that somersaulted several times would ordinarily be unconscious and would not take photographs of the deceased and upload them on social media.
They also contended that the driver and the orderly should have cordoned off the place and evacuated the corpses as this had been the tradition whenever a VIP was involved in an accident.
Aliu said, “Distinguished Senator Ngige, I know you very well. When James Ocholi was told to work with you, I knew he was in good hands because the last time I saw you was in Anambra State. We ate with you in your house as a governor.
“This man that just died is not a lone person. We leave this responsibility in your care. Whoever recruited the driver and posted (redeploy) him should be investigated. It can happen to anybody, it can happen to any minister. It can happen because it has happened.
“So, we want to know who recruited the driver, and at what speed (he was during the trip) to the extent that the corpse of the deceased cannot even be recognised. Can you imagine that? I am worried, it is worrisome.”
He also shed light on his allegations later during a telephone interview with The PUNCH.
Aliu added, “There was a kind of foul play in the whole exercise, which is very worrisome. Apparently, the driver who drove the car was the same person who took the photo of the dead man and sent it all over the Internet – whatsApp and others. So, the question is: how come that the driver of the vehicle in the same car was able to take the picture of the dead man?
“The side of the door, where the Honourable Minister sat, was not properly locked because after the car somersaulted, the thing flung him and so he had a terrible and fatal damage that his body was beyond recognition. There was a foul play in Ocholi’s death.
“While I was in his house, I already knew because those who conspired and plotted it (the death) became jittery because I have never been to that house and they don’t know me. But somehow, they became jittery, scared and worried.
“This thing they did is political, it is a political war and some people want to score some political points against the system somehow. The death of Ocholi is quite suspicious.
“So, I had to hurriedly leave because God has made me to know what happened and we know that they will get the people who are responsible. When you are innocent, God will always uncover how certain things happened. Ocholi’s death is a great loss to the common people of Nigeria. And the spirit of the common people of Nigeria is fighting back.
“The perpetrators want to derail the focus of this administration. They are looking for every way to put a wedge in the wheel of success. I can specifically pinpoint those who plotted these things. What they are trying to do now is to knock heads together and the earlier we get rid of them out of that place, the better.
“As we were there, they were trying to get the contacts of the ministers that came there for condolence, making phone calls and reporting back to whoever is their manipulator.
“They decided to get rid of Ocholi to derail the focus of the government. Ocholi was not smart enough to know that these things could happen. They have lost, failed and we will ask God to forgive them because they have taken a soul that they cannot create.”
The Federal Executive Council will on Wednesday hold a special session to pay tribute to the late Ocholi.
The Special Adviser to the President on Media and Publicity, Mr. Femi Adesina, disclosed this to State House correspondents on Monday.
Adesina said the deceased, being an active member of the council, would be given his due tribute at the special session.
He said President Muhammadu Buhari, shocked by Ocholi’s sudden death, had described the accident that claimed his life and those of two other members of his family as a tragedy of monumental proportion.
Adesina said, “You can feel the soberness in the atmosphere. Everybody believes that this is a terrible tragedy.
“Mr. President paid glowing tribute to the departed. Their relationship dated back to the CPC days to the role he played in the APC merger.
“The President just concluded that it is a tragedy of monumental proportion.
“The late Ocholi will be given his dues. He was an active member of the Federal Executive Council.
“I recall that we shared laughter after the last meeting on some things that are hilarious. When I heard about the tragedy yesterday, that our last meeting came to my mind.
“So you can be sure that on Wednesday, the council will pay him his due tribute.”
Meanwhile, the Corps Marshal, Federal Road Safety Corps, Mr. Boboye Oyeyemi, has said the agency does not recruit drivers for governors, ministers or other senior government officials.
He explained that the officials were responsible for their convoy drivers.
Oyeyemi, who said this on Monday in Abuja while responding to questions on the auto crash in which Ocholi, his wife and son, were killed, stated that the FRSC had been training the drivers of top government officials.
He explained that investigation into the crash was ongoing, noting that the report would be ready in 72 hours.
Oyeyemi said, “We have been collaborating with governors and other government officials in the training of their drivers, but we don’t recruit drivers for them, but we train convoy drivers in the nitty-gritty of good driving skills.”
On speed limiters, the FRSC boss called on all stakeholders as well as Nigerians to support the implementation of the device, starting with commercial vehicles “as it will go a long way in reducing road crashes caused by speeding.”
The corps marshal stressed the need to control the speed of tanker drivers as well as train them in driving techniques.
Oyeyemi said the corps had always campaigned for the use of the front seat belts.
“Henceforth, we will start the campaign on the use of the rear seat belts to further enhance the safety of passengers in a vehicle,” he added.
He warned motorists to stop the purchase of expired tyres, which, he said, contributed to road crashes.

Source: PUNCH

Blind man, others arrested by police for stealing N20m goods


Suspects
A 61-year-old blind man, Monday Iruanya, has been arrested by the Lagos State Police Command for alleged robbery and stealing tyres valued at about N20m.
His accomplices were identified as John Michael, Charles Chinoso and James Francis.
The police, while parading the suspects on Monday, said a soldier was being trailed for aiding the suspects, adding that 50 suspected Awawa boys had been nabbed.

The command said the tyres were owned by a businessman in Apapa and were valued at about N20m.
PUNCH Metro learnt that the tyres were stolen at a warehouse in Apapa and were being taken to Sagamu, Ogun State, for sale when they were intercepted in Ijebu Ode by policemen, who had been on their trail from Lagos.
It was gathered that Michael, who acted as the owner of the goods, had approached the blind suspect to help him get a waybill so the security agents would not question his ownership of the items.
Iruanya, who police said was released from the Kirikiri Prison for stealing in 2010, was said to have provided the waybill, which listed the stolen items and the destination, after a promise of N100,000 from the proceeds.
Iruanya said he wanted to use the money to treat his eyes, adding that he did not know the tyres were stolen.
He said, “I was a transporter and had many cars. I was arrested in 2010 for stealing some spare parts, but I was later released. I became blind in 2012. My friend, Michael, came to me that he needed a waybill. I got it at Tincan in Apapa and he promised to give me N100,000 to treat my eyes.
“He and I were at Sagamu waiting for the truck to arrive when the police arrested us. I did not know the content of the truck and whether the items were stolen.”
The driver, Francis, said the tarpaulin they used to cover the goods had torn and were trying to replace it when the police swooped on them at Ijebu Ode.
“It was a friend, Peter that invited me to the deal. But he fled at Ijebu Ode while we were looking for a tarpaulin to cover the tyres,” he said.
The truck conductor, 30-year-old Chinoso, confessed to the crime, saying he was promised N150,000.
The 50 suspected Awawa boys, a robbery gang which operated mainly around Agege area of the state, were arrested by Rapid Response Squad. Two of the suspects were female minors.
The police said the suspects were identified through the special tattoos they had in their hands and faces.
However, the suspects, who spoke with PUNCH Metro denied membership of the criminal group.
One of them, 15-year-old Kafila, said, “I was hawking satchet water in Oshodi on Saturday when I was arrested by the task force men. I live with my grandma in Oshodi. I am not an Awawa member.”
The state Commissioner of Police, Fatai Owoseni, urged parents to closely monitor the behaviour of their wards and urged the public to promptly report criminal activities around them to the police.
“Within a week, operatives of the command arrested 26 robbers. In the course of the encounter with the police, one of them died. About 49 live cartridges and ammunition were recovered. The suspects will be prosecuted,” he added.

Source: PUNCH.

Four die as building collapses in Lekki


Collapsed building in Lekki. Sodiq Adelakun/PUNCH

A five-storey building collapsed in the early hours of Tuesday at Lekki Phase 1, Lagos State, resulting in the deaths of at least four people.
As of 9am, four people have been recovered dead and six others rescued.
The spokespersons for the National Emergency Management Agency, South West zone, Ibrahim Faronloye, and the Director of the Lagos State Fire Service, Rasak Fadipe, said search and rescue operation is ongoing.