Basic things every lady checks out in a man as soon as they meet

Let us start by telling you most of the girls in the society give in to pretense; the society at large does not encourage women to be forward when it comes to issues that concern relationships and courtship.

The girls are supposed to be modest and well behaved; they are expected to take whatever comes to their table with glee when they are being approached by men. Men in the society have the right to do as they please. They are allowed to whistle and make lewd remarks when ladies walk in front of them.

It is only the refined ones among them that do not throw bawdy jokes at an innocent lady as a way of admiring her beauty. What many people in the society know and may not want to accept is the fact that women also lust after men.

The very moment they set their eyes on the men, an opinion would have been formed in their minds. Thanks to cougars, you may not be able to argue this one out as they also pick out the men that would ‘service’ them.

The young ladies in the society have their specifications when it comes to the kind of men they fall for. They have certain criteria they want the men to abide by and physical attributes they would like them to conform with before they could ever stand a chance to talk to them at all.

Find below some of the things every lady checks out in a man as soon as they meet:

1. The guy’s physique

 

Whether you believe it or not, ladies check out men. They make a mental assessment of them from the head to the toe. Ladies like guys who are hot; these ones will no doubt cause a stir when they are out together.

The thought of having the finest guy in the society is appealing to most women. Pre-wedding pictures also come out better when the groom is fine and handsome. Ladies like men who have muscles and abs.

2. His composure

Some guys do not know how to behave publicly; a lady with class and finesse would always want to be with a man who fits her standard.

When ladies meet men, they study them to know how they go about things. Ladies want to meet men who exude confidence; guys who are sure of themselves and know what they want in life.

3. Mannerism

Every young girl has a list of things she wants her man to be even before she meets him. We all know that some of these things may be over stated; however, every girl wants a well-behaved man. A guy that is humble, nice and soft would have lots of girls around him.

4. Mode of dressing

Ladies love guys who have a good sense of fashion; this has nothing to do with being materialistic. You can bet no girl would be willing to hear the things a man dressed shabbily has to say.

When a girl meets a man for the first time, his mode of dressing would convince her to have a quick chat with him. Ladies check out the kind of shirts, belts, shoes and wristwatches the men rock as soon as they meet.

5. The kind of perfume they wear

Women appreciate men who smell nicely. The kind of perfume you have on as man would hint a woman about your personality.

Women stay attracted to men who pay close attention to their personal hygiene; they love it when they meet men who have a strong masculine smell that is delightful. No one is talking about those annoying perfumes with a nauseating smell.

6. Financial status

While a girl may not be able to look into the details of a man’s bank account, they can guess if he is financially stable judging from the things he has on, the kind of car he drives, the places where he is seen and the kind of company he keeps.

These may not be observed at once but it is quite possible for the lady to see one or two traits that would tell her about his financial status.

Ladies want to be with men who can take care of their needs and compliment them from time to time. No one wants to live a life penury.

7. His mentality and attitude to life

A man’s mentality and attitude to life are always known from the things he says and the way he reasons. Ladies are able to recognize the shallow thinkers from the words that come out of their mouths and the way they reason.

They can also get to draw a conclusion from the things that amuse them in life. Ladies get to know whether a man has prospects or not from the things he spews from his mouth.