Why you got dumped

This article is for both gender but specifically for women who always feel used and dumped by men. I may not tell you what you expect exactly, but trust me this will definitely worth it.

I believe you read across the word ‘feel.’ So to begin with, getting dumped is not an action by the second person; rather it is a feeling by the first person. Did you get that? It means you never got dumped! You just feel dumped. You have to first understand the person you call your partner. And that reminds me, a lot of ladies call guys their men when the latter don’t hold the same view. That is, most times the person you see as your boyfriend/girlfriend does not have the same view of you.

Like I said, you have to understand certain things about men, especially their view on sex and relationship. We live in a country where sex is more fun and game to men than it is to women. What I mean is, as long as most dudes are concerned, sex is simply fun and game. They don’t take as seriously as women do; whereas the latter is more connected during sex than the former. So when, as a woman, you have sex with a man as an act of love, the man does it as an act of fun. When you crave for inward satisfaction, the man simply wants to ejaculate, enjoy himself at the moment, and go away. So you don’t get ‘used and dumped,’ you only feel dumped because you thought the guy was for real whereas, he is not. In the next article, we will discuss some tips on how to know a fake guy.

About relationship: men don’t define relationship in the same way as women do. In this part of the world, where this kind of thing is not taken so seriously by most people, understanding how a man’s mindset works is a way of avoiding feeling dumped. You won’t feel dumped if you are aware that your partner is not serious about the relationship. But in most cases people tend to keep carrying on even when they know the relationship is not for real. And when the other person walks away, they feel dumped. Well, something to be happy about: you got dumped because your partner is a lying bastard and you fail to notice it on time – or you probably failed to make a decision on time.

The end point of it all is that being dumped is just a feeling, and you don’t need to let it get into your system.