Women have sex when they want, unlike men that have sex whenever they can. From confessions I have gathered, it emerges that women have sex for physical, emotional and material reasons; to boost their self-esteem, to keep their lovers, or because they are raped or coerced, and this one just to say ‘I did it’.
Pity patter sex
Women may sometimes give in to sex for this simple reason; after all, we are women with maternal instincts. Women have confirmed over and again to have had sex with men just because they felt sorry for them. According to one, she had been dating a guy over two years and he had been pleading with her all through. One day, she said she took pity on him and agreed. However, he was out of the door as soon as he could pull his pants up (just like a dog).
Here is an advice, girls: have sex because you want to and not because you feel pressured to, or are sorry for the guy (if he doesn’t have blue eyes then I don’t see why you cannot stay away). That way, should things go sour, you can hold your head up, look the loser in the eye and say: “gerrarahere for real men! you fall me, I fall you, no big deal!”
Sex for marriage sake
This is very different from marital sex. This is simply sex to negotiate for marriage. Some ladies believe that having sex with a guy will provide them the opportunity to show the guys and convince them that they are good and suitable for each other.
To add insult to injury, some of these ladies are prepared to play little housewife roles, they go over to the guys’ apartments for chores and even wash their dirty under wears and clothes. Some even cook with their own money to convince the guys that they can support the union financially too. My little sister gave me a gist about one of her friends who played house help for someone she called her fiancĂ© for almost four years, refusing to heed everyone’s warning and yes, as you guessed–she got jilted.
Back for ground, just give me what I want
What came to your mind is prostitution, yes? Just as the phrase imply, this is when you use what you have to get what you want. For women, sex has become a super power (well, the fellas caused this one, acting all thirsty all the time) so they use it to manipulate, not just for monetary gains also to make boys be their hand bag, pay for their food (that they can pay for o) and yes, open the car door for them, to get jobs, promotions, or even maintain status as the case might be.
Many men, both high and low have been known to succumb to the aura of this potent natural endowment. Many women have perfected the art of using their gifts from mother nature to get what they want through intense manipulation and negotiation.
Sex for cure
Then there is sex to feel better. Women use sex to cure their migraines. This is explained by the release of endormorphins during sex – they are a pain reliever. Sex can even help relieve period pains. To be honest, rather than down pills, why not get some? Doctor’s prescription!
Do me, I do you sex
Aka revenge sex. This is common with women who have been hurt and who want to get their pound of flesh. Often, a wife might cheat on her cheating husband just to get back at him and probably make him feel the way she felt. It could also be to get back at a partner who has neglected them. Again, she might have sex to reassure herself that she is still pretty and desirable by men after she’d been jilted by one, or to simply walk out of an existing relationship. Revenge sex may sometimes take a bizarre twist, depending on motive and individual.
People that have sex just to hurt their partners seem dumb to me, because most times he might not even care because he has outnumbered you without you knowing. So darlings, stick to having sex because YOU want to.