Friday, 25 March 2016

Nigerian Women Are Prostitutes: Al Jazeera Article Sends Nigerians Into Angry Mode


Minister of Women Affairs, Aisha Jummai Alhassan
Minister of Women Affairs, Aisha Jummai Alhassan


An article published online this morning by international news medium Al Jazeera has elicited furious reactions from Nigerians.
The offending article, which was posted on Al Jazeera English’s twitter handle, was headlined: “Nigeria’s first female mechanic provides a way out of prostitution for Nigerian women”.
The article…
Many Nigerians who took to social media to express their anger at the article, questioned the choice of words used by the headline writer and wondered how the media organisation got to know that the subject of the story was the first female Nigerian mechanic.
They equally vehemently berated the news organisation for suggesting that all Nigerian women were prostitutes.
Read some of the reactions below…
Re: Al-Jazeera Portrays Nigerian Women As Prostitutes: Nigerians On Twitter React by MNDY(m): 2:48pm
I feel a deep sense of displeasure right now over this issue!

Can you just imagine . . . Aljazeera with that wide coverage they have to their credit portraying Nigeria in this negative light to the whole world

Re: Al-Jazeera Portrays Nigerian Women As Prostitutes: Nigerians On Twitter React by horsepower24: 2:43pm
Al-Jazeera messed up big time, what survey dis they conduct that made them ascertain that that woman is the first female mechanic? Secondly, generalisation of Nigerian women being prostitutes is totally unacceptable.

Re: Al-Jazeera Portrays Nigerian Women As Prostitutes: Nigerians On Twitter React by STFUareyouGod(m): 2:43pm


If I insult Al-jazeera and all its journalists will I be banned?

Re: Al-Jazeera Portrays Nigerian Women As Prostitutes: Nigerians On Twitter React by pabon(m): 2:49pm
What nonsense. Its not fair at all

Re: Al-Jazeera Portrays Nigerian Women As Prostitutes: Nigerians On Twitter React by MNDY(m): 2:56pm
Bleep all of you taking sides with Al-Jazeera here on Nairaland

Any Nigerian abroad is looked at by the host citizens as a bad societal element judging by what they’ve been hearing about us

Re: Al-Jazeera Portrays Nigerian Women As Prostitutes: Nigerians On Twitter React by freakzone(f): 3:01pm
That,s called stereotype!!!

Re: Al-Jazeera Portrays Nigerian Women As Prostitutes: Nigerians On Twitter React by kozmokaz(m): 3:02pm
this is not a wailers or zombie issue!!
this s an insult to all Nigerians both male and female!!
let us all put our difference aside and stand up against this slander by the whites!!


Nigerian Women Are Prostitutes: Al Jazeera Article Sends Nigerians Into Angry Mode


Minister of Women Affairs, Aisha Jummai Alhassan
Minister of Women Affairs, Aisha Jummai Alhassan


An article published online this morning by international news medium Al Jazeera has elicited furious reactions from Nigerians.
The offending article, which was posted on Al Jazeera English’s twitter handle, was headlined: “Nigeria’s first female mechanic provides a way out of prostitution for Nigerian women”.
The article…
Many Nigerians who took to social media to express their anger at the article, questioned the choice of words used by the headline writer and wondered how the media organisation got to know that the subject of the story was the first female Nigerian mechanic.
They equally vehemently berated the news organisation for suggesting that all Nigerian women were prostitutes.
Read some of the reactions below…
Re: Al-Jazeera Portrays Nigerian Women As Prostitutes: Nigerians On Twitter React by MNDY(m): 2:48pm
I feel a deep sense of displeasure right now over this issue!

Can you just imagine . . . Aljazeera with that wide coverage they have to their credit portraying Nigeria in this negative light to the whole world

Re: Al-Jazeera Portrays Nigerian Women As Prostitutes: Nigerians On Twitter React by horsepower24: 2:43pm
Al-Jazeera messed up big time, what survey dis they conduct that made them ascertain that that woman is the first female mechanic? Secondly, generalisation of Nigerian women being prostitutes is totally unacceptable.

Re: Al-Jazeera Portrays Nigerian Women As Prostitutes: Nigerians On Twitter React by STFUareyouGod(m): 2:43pm


If I insult Al-jazeera and all its journalists will I be banned?

Re: Al-Jazeera Portrays Nigerian Women As Prostitutes: Nigerians On Twitter React by pabon(m): 2:49pm
What nonsense. Its not fair at all

Re: Al-Jazeera Portrays Nigerian Women As Prostitutes: Nigerians On Twitter React by MNDY(m): 2:56pm
Bleep all of you taking sides with Al-Jazeera here on Nairaland

Any Nigerian abroad is looked at by the host citizens as a bad societal element judging by what they’ve been hearing about us

Re: Al-Jazeera Portrays Nigerian Women As Prostitutes: Nigerians On Twitter React by freakzone(f): 3:01pm
That,s called stereotype!!!

Re: Al-Jazeera Portrays Nigerian Women As Prostitutes: Nigerians On Twitter React by kozmokaz(m): 3:02pm
this is not a wailers or zombie issue!!
this s an insult to all Nigerians both male and female!!
let us all put our difference aside and stand up against this slander by the whites!!


Nigerian Women Are Prostitutes: Al Jazeera Article Sends Nigerians Into Angry Mode


Minister of Women Affairs, Aisha Jummai Alhassan
Minister of Women Affairs, Aisha Jummai Alhassan


An article published online this morning by international news medium Al Jazeera has elicited furious reactions from Nigerians.
The offending article, which was posted on Al Jazeera English’s twitter handle, was headlined: “Nigeria’s first female mechanic provides a way out of prostitution for Nigerian women”.
The article…
Many Nigerians who took to social media to express their anger at the article, questioned the choice of words used by the headline writer and wondered how the media organisation got to know that the subject of the story was the first female Nigerian mechanic.
They equally vehemently berated the news organisation for suggesting that all Nigerian women were prostitutes.
Read some of the reactions below…
Re: Al-Jazeera Portrays Nigerian Women As Prostitutes: Nigerians On Twitter React by MNDY(m): 2:48pm
I feel a deep sense of displeasure right now over this issue!

Can you just imagine . . . Aljazeera with that wide coverage they have to their credit portraying Nigeria in this negative light to the whole world

Re: Al-Jazeera Portrays Nigerian Women As Prostitutes: Nigerians On Twitter React by horsepower24: 2:43pm
Al-Jazeera messed up big time, what survey dis they conduct that made them ascertain that that woman is the first female mechanic? Secondly, generalisation of Nigerian women being prostitutes is totally unacceptable.

Re: Al-Jazeera Portrays Nigerian Women As Prostitutes: Nigerians On Twitter React by STFUareyouGod(m): 2:43pm


If I insult Al-jazeera and all its journalists will I be banned?

Re: Al-Jazeera Portrays Nigerian Women As Prostitutes: Nigerians On Twitter React by pabon(m): 2:49pm
What nonsense. Its not fair at all

Re: Al-Jazeera Portrays Nigerian Women As Prostitutes: Nigerians On Twitter React by MNDY(m): 2:56pm
Bleep all of you taking sides with Al-Jazeera here on Nairaland

Any Nigerian abroad is looked at by the host citizens as a bad societal element judging by what they’ve been hearing about us

Re: Al-Jazeera Portrays Nigerian Women As Prostitutes: Nigerians On Twitter React by freakzone(f): 3:01pm
That,s called stereotype!!!

Re: Al-Jazeera Portrays Nigerian Women As Prostitutes: Nigerians On Twitter React by kozmokaz(m): 3:02pm
this is not a wailers or zombie issue!!
this s an insult to all Nigerians both male and female!!
let us all put our difference aside and stand up against this slander by the whites!!


Peter Takes Picture with Paul in Amsterdam (Photo)


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Peter and Paul Okoye have been feuding for a while now and from all indications, you would say P-Square is dead.
But It seems they will be performing in Amsterdam together. Peter Okoye shared a picture on his Instagram page with his brother and other members of their party.
Whether this is a reunion of P-Square or just one last performance together is unknown. It is no secret that most fans have begged the duo to come back together and not destroy what has become an amazing legacy.
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I became 25th world’s richest man due to Jonathan’s favourable economic policies – Dangote

Dangote made this claim In September 2013

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Aliko Dangote, has said that his achievements as the richest man in Africa and 25th richest man on earth were attributable to the favourable policies of the administration of President Goodluck Jonathan.
Dangote disclosed this in Nairobi when President Goodluck Jonathan met with the Nigerian community in Kenya.
The News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) reports that the meeting was part of the activities lined up for the three-day visit of President Jonathan to Kenya, which began Thursday.
Dangote, who was on the entourage of the president to Kenya, told the gathering that Jonathan had done a lot to improve the business climate in Nigeria.
“I want to tell you what the president has been doing in Nigeria. He is very humble and may not want to sing about what he has been doing.
“I will tell you what he has been doing to Nigerians and to some of us who are in business in Nigeria. We are very grateful for some of the policies he has introduced.
“As you all know, without good policies of government, there is no way a person like me from a big town like Kano can rise from a humble beginning to become the 25th richest person on earth.
“Without the policies of the president and also making sure that there is consistency in the policies of the government, this could not have happened,” he said.
Culled from Tribune

Man Utd offers Zlatan Ibrahimovic £250k per week contract in £24m deal

Manchester United is set to offer 34 year old Zlatan Ibrahimovic a mega £250k per week salary in order to tempt him to snub Chinese League, Arsenal and Chelsea interest.

The Sweden and PSG player is at the prime of his career and has refused to sign a new deal with PSG. Man U officials have made him their prime target with his contract set to expire on the 1st of June, 2016.

According to an exclusive report by DailyStar, Zlatan Ibrahimovic will choose Man U if Jose Mourinho becomes their coach as he has a wonderful relationship with the Portuguese tactician.

 See the full report below.
'The 34-year-old will be a free agent in June after failing to agree a new deal with Paris St-Germain. 'He is keen to end his career in the Premier League and it is understood United are willing to offer him a short-term deal worth £24m.
United executive vice-chairman Ed Woodward hopes to tempt Ibrahimovic with two-year deal worth a staggering £250,000-a-week. Ibrahimovic is also a target of Arsenal and Chelsea, but United are willing to blow them out of the water and flex their financial muscle.
The deal on offer would make Ibrahimovic one of the highest-paid stars in English football. A club source said: “The team needs a major injection of talent and some superstar additions.
“Zlatan fits the bill. He might be getting on a bit but he can still do it at the highest level and would be worth the risk in terms of big wages because no fee is involved.” 'The news is also another strong indication that Louis van Gaal is heading for the Old Trafford exit at the end of this season.'

Five Ways To Make Your Partner Last Longer During Sex






Being early, fast, or quick is definitely impressive in most areas in life, like reading or running…but not in sex. In fact, if you’ve ever had sex with a guy who finishes too quickly, you know how much of a bummer it can be for both of you. Sadly, it’s also extremely common, according to a new survey by Promescent, maker of the first FDA-approved treatment spray for premature ejaculation.
Researchers at Promescent surveyed 502 men and women between the ages of 18 and 60 (most were in the 30-44 age range) for two surveys about sex. The men answered questions like, “Are you able to help your partner achieve climax?” and “Do you feel pornography affects your sex life personally?” The women answered questions like, “Are you able to achieve orgasm every time you have sex?” and “Does your partner ever reach climax after having sex for only five minutes?”
But luckily there are a few things you can do to help your guy hold out so you can both reach the finish line:

Suggest a Pregame

We know it sounds crazy but, before you meet up, tell your partner how hot it would be for him to masturbate to the thought of what you’ll be doing later on, says Emily Morse, Ph.D., host of Sex With Emily and co-founder of Emily & Tony. Why should he please himself without you? Morse explains that not only will it get him in the mood, but if he masturbates not long before he sees you, it can help him last longer when you’re together (as long as you know he’s not the kind of guy who can only go once a day). Just make sure he doesn’t have a solo session right before you get there, since he may need some time to recover for round two—a few hours should do the trick.
Let Him Watch You
Before having sex, make masturbation part of your foreplay. “Tell him you want him to watch you touch yourself, he will love it,” Morse promises. Plus it will help you get a head start and close the orgasm gap so that you’re both on the same page once you’re having sex.

Take Charge

“Most men are not eager to seek help when it comes to matters of their penis,” says Morse. “Perhaps he thinks it’s too embarrassing or shameful to talk to his doctor or his partner, leaving you scrambling to find solutions.” That’s why Morse suggests taking some of the initiative in this scenario. Start by suggesting moves like girl on top, which will help you control the pace (and slow it down if he’s getting too close). Or you can pick up some condoms or analgesic sprays like Promescent to help him last longer, says Morse. It’ll show him that you support him and want to help, and it’ll take some of the burden off of him.

Press Pause

When you’re having sex and want to help him last a little longer, ask him to pause. “When you stop sex and start again, it will allow him to cool down for a few before getting going again,” explains Morse. Let him know you want to experiment with the slightest bit of kink by practicing the art of withholding. Use this time to just kiss without touching, give each other massages, or grab some fun toys to play with.

Teach Him a Thing or Two

You know Kegels can help you have stronger orgasms, and a new study found those exact same exercises could also help men. Seriously. So teach him how to do man-Kegels—it’s an easy, medication-free way to help him control his erection.

Six Things You Should Never Do Before Sex



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From protecting yourself against STDs to avoiding dry lady parts and embarrassing farts, here are six pre-sex no-nos you may want to take under consideration before your next roll in the hay.
1. Taking an Antihistamine
Antihistamines work by drying out your mucus membranes to relieve nasal congestion… and in doing so, can also dry out other parts of your body, especially the vagina, says Nicole E. Williams, M.D., board-certified gynecologic surgeon. Long story short, no matter how turned on you might be, your vag will not get the memo.
2. Eating Spicy Foods
“Foods can affect vaginal odor and taste,” says Kathryn Boling, M.D., primary care physician at Mercy Medical Center. Super-spicy foods like jalapeños can cause gas, bloating, and farts that just won’t quit. What’s worse, the residue left on your hands and in your mouth post-nosh is notorious for setting genitals on fire.
3. Drinking Too Much
Sure, light drinking can put some people in the mood, but overdoing it can dull your senses—and may send your big O packing. “Since alcohol is a known depressant, your ability to experience an orgasm may actually be diminished if you’re too buzzed,” says Williams. In fact, one study at the University of Missouri-St. Louis found that 11 percent of alcohol users had problems achieving orgasm: Men who drank had a harder time ejaculating (pun totally intended), while women needed an extra stimulation for their grand finale.
4. Using an Electric Toothbrush
It sounds weird, but using an electric toothbrush and alcohol-based mouthwashes might make you more prone to STDs. “Similar to sensitive vaginal mucosa, spinning bristles can cause tiny tears in the gums, and harsh, alcohol-based mouthwashes can dry out and irritate your mucosa, making it prone to sores and contracting STDs,” says Tsippora Shainhouse, M.D., board-certified dermatologist in Beverly Hills.
5. Shaving
If you’re a woman who prefers trimming her hedges, it’s best to shave the night before nookie to give your skin a chance to heal, says Shainhouse. “Shaving will exfoliate the top layer of the skin, making the area more sensitive,” she adds. “It can irritate hair follicles, causing a pink bumpy rash, and can cause tiny cuts, which would leave your skin open to potential infections, such as herpes and HPV.” Use a multi-blade razor to get a closer shave in one swipe, and apply a thin layer of one percent hydrocortisone cream to reduce inflammation. Reapply the next morning if there are any signs of irritation hanging around, says Shainhouse.
6. Using Food as Foreplay
The chocolate sauce pre-game show is hot in the moment, but the post-sex yeast infection? Not so much. “Using anything with sugar in it as a lubricant (whether on purpose or not) can cause a yeast infection, as yeast thrives on sugar,” says Boling. Message received loud and clear!

Pope Francis Washes and Kisses the Feet of Refugees Including Nigerians

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Pope Francis in the spirit of Easter visited a refugee centre to wash and kiss the feet of Muslim, Orthodox, Hindu and Catholic refugees — a gesture of welcome at a time when anti-Muslim and anti-immigrant sentiment has risen after the Brussels and Paris attacks.
Pope Francis celebrated the traditional Easter Week foot-washing ceremony at a refugee shelter in Castelnuovo di Porto, outside Rome, inaugurating the most solemn period of the Catholic Church’s Easter season.
The Holy Thursday rite re-enacts the foot-washing ritual Jesus performed on his apostles before being crucified and is meant as a gesture of service.
Francis was greeted with a banner reading “Welcome” in a variety of languages as he processed down a makeshift aisle to celebrate the outdoor Mass.
A fraction of the 892 asylum seekers living in the shelter attended the mass, though others milled around nearby and filmed the event on their smartphones.
Vatican rules had long called for only men to participate in the ritual, and past popes and many priests traditionally performed it on 12 Catholic men, recalling Jesus’ 12 apostles and further cementing the doctrine of an all-male priesthood.
But after years of violating the rules outright, Francis in January changed the regulations to explicitly allow women and girls to participate in the ritual.
The Vatican said on Thursday that four women and eight men had been selected. The women included an Italian who works at the centre and three Eritrean Coptic Christian migrants. The men included four Catholics from Nigeria, three Muslims from Mali, Syria and Pakistan, and a Hindu from India.
The new norms said anyone from the “people of God” could be chosen to participate in the ceremony.
While the phrase “people of God” usually refers to baptised Christians, the decree also said that pastors should instruct “both the chosen faithful and others so that they may participate in the rite consciously, actively and fruitfully”, suggesting that the rite could be open to non-Catholics as well.
The Pope also said: “All of us together: Muslims, Hindus, Catholics, Copts, Evangelicals. But all brothers and children of the same God,” the Pope said. “We have different cultures and religions, but we are brothers and we want to live in peace.”
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Thursday, 24 March 2016

Ben Carson defends support on Donald Trump : 'Nice guys don't win'




  • Ben Carson appeared on ABC's "The View" on Thursday where he defended his support for Donald Trump
  • During his comments, the retired neurosurgeon said nice guys like him don't perform well in elections
Washington (CNN)Ben Carson delivered a sobering assessment Thursday of the state of politics: nice guys don't win.
Whoopi Goldberg, Joy Behar and other co-hosts of ABC's "The View" grilled Carson repeatedly for the retired neurosurgeon's decision to support Donald Trump's presidential bid, asking how an inspirational figure like him -- "You're Ben Carson. You're so much better than this!" Goldberg said -- could endorse Trump.
"Let me tell you something -- when you're very nice, you're very respectful, you talk about the real issues, and not (getting) into all these issues, where does it get you? It gets you where it got me. Nowhere, OK?" Carson said.
"You have aligned yourself with a man who has bashed women and made countless racist remarks. And you're Ben Carson, why would you align yourself with that?" Goldberg asked. Behar asked how he could support someone who equated him to a child molester and called him a liar.
In November, Trump, citing a phrase used in Carson's autobiography, said the retired neurosurgeon had a "pathological temper" that could not be cured. "That's a big problem because you don't cure that," he told CNN's Erin Burnett. "As an example: child molesting. You don't cure these people. You don't cure a child molester. There's no cure for it. Pathological, there's no cure for that."
But Carson said he, and others, should look past Trump's comments and look to the bigger problems facing the nation.
"If it were about me I would be offended, but it's about America. We have to save this nation. That is what's important," Carson said.
Trump quickly blasted the show Thursday in a series of tweets.
"@TheView T.V. show, which is failing so badly that it will soon be taken off (the) air, is constantly asking me to go on. I TELL THEM "NO"" Trump tweeted.

Missing people as Ijaw, Urhobo communities clash in Delta


No fewer than three persons were fatally wounded on Thursday, with scores still missing following an early morning clash between the Urhobo people of Aladja and Ijaw of Ogbe-Ijoh communities in Udu and Warri Southwest local government areas of Delta state, The Nation reports.
It is reported that the two communities have been involved in incessant clashes for decades as they are locked in a boundary dispute that predates the Ijaw /Itsekiri war that lasted from 1997 to 2004.
An indigene of Ogbe-Ijoh, Mr Richard Koremene, who informed the newspaper that three of his kinsmen had been butchered, said: “Some Ogbe-Ijoh persons have been injured and tension is very high now and there is concern that the hostility might escalate.”

Football legend, Johan Cruyff dies at 68


Johan Cruyff. Photo: AFP
Johan Cruyff, one of the greatest footballers in history, died on Thursday at the age of 68 after losing his battle with cancer, it was announced on his official Twitter account.
The Dutchman won three European Cups as a player with Ajax as well as three Ballon d’Or titles (1971, 1973, 1974). He then led Barcelona to their first European Cup title as a manager in 1992.
 Johan Cruyff factfile
Name: Johan Cruyff
Born: Amsterdam 25/04/1947
Died: Barcelona 24/03/2016
Nationality: Dutch
Playing position: Attacking midfielder
Clubs : Ajax (1964-73), Barcelona (ESP/1973-78), Los Angeles Aztecs (USA/1979), Washington Diplomats (USA/1980), UD Levante (ESP/1980-81), Washington Diplomats (USA/1981), Ajax (1981-83), Feyenoord (1983-84)
International appearances: 48
International goals: 33
Playing Career 
International playing honours 
World Cup: finalist (1974), 1 appearance, 7 matches, 3 goals, player of the tournament
European Championships: third (1976), 0 goals
Club honours 
3 European Cups (1971, 1972, 1973)
1 Intercontinental Cup (1972)
1 European Supercup (1972)
9 Dutch Championships (1966, 1967, 1968, 1970, 1972, 1973, 1982, 1983, 1984). Top scorer (1967/33 goals, 1972/25 goals)
6 Dutch Cups (1967, 1970, 1971, 1972, 1983, 1984)
1 Spanish Championship (1974)
1 Spanish Cup (1978)
Other Honours
3 times European player of the year (1971, 1973, 1974)
Coaching Career
Clubs: Ajax (1985-88), FC Barcelona (ESP/1988-96)
Coaching Honours
1 Champions League (1992) 2 Cup Winners’ Cup (1987, 1989)
1 European Supercup (1992)
2 Dutch Cups (1986, 1987)
4 Spanish Championships (1991, 1992, 1993, 1994)
1 Spanish Cup (1990)
3 Spanish Supercups (1991, 1992, 1994)

Mikel Obi now Super Eagles captain


Super Eagles forward Mikel Obi on Thursday emerged the team’s new captain ahead of Africa Cup of Nations qualifier against the Pharaohs of Egypt on Friday in Kaduna. The Eagles forward and tentative Captain, Ahmed Musa, handed the captain’s band to Obi during the team’s parley with journalists in Kaduna, News Agency of Nigeria reported.
While handing over the captain’s band at Ahmadu Bello Stadium, venue of the match, Musa  said that Obi deserved the captainship since he is the oldest player in the team.
Obi, who is the Eagles’ longest serving player, thanked Ahmed Musa for handing over to him.
“It takes a man to do what he has done, so I commend him,’’ Obi said.
On the encounter with their Egyptian counterparts, Obi said that though it would be a tough match, the Eagles would do their best to win.
The Super Eagles’ Interim Coach, Samson Siasia, said that he was happy to see Musa hand over the captainship to the oldest player in the team.
He also said that Musa would now serve as the team’s Vice-Captain.
Siasia expressed confidence that the team would beat the Egyptian side during the Friday’s encounter.

Guard rapes eight-year-old in exchange for N10


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The Lagos State Police Command has arrested a 33-year-old security man, Freedom Barryneh, for allegedly raping his neigbour’s daughter, aged eight.
The incident reportedly happened on Akali Street, in the Ajegunle area of Lagos State after the victim, Sandra (pseudonym), approached the suspect and requested N10 from him to buy biscuit.
PUNCH Metro learnt that after giving her the money, Barryneh, who was watching a pornographic film when the minor entered his apartment, persuaded her to stay with him.
While the movie was on, he allegedly told Sandra to undress but she declined, saying her mother would beat her for doing so.
The suspect, however, allegedly resorted to force and allegedly dragged her into bed and raped her.
Our correspondent gathered that Sandra, who was warned by the suspected rapist not to disclose the act to anybody, eventually opened up to her mother when she began to feel pains in her private parts.
The victim said, “I asked Mr. Freedom (Barryneh) to give me N10 to buy biscuit and he did. He took me inside his room. He was watching one video that was showing naked men and women. He asked me to remove my clothes, but I said my mother would beat me. He pushed me and put me on his bed. He removed my clothes and put his thing inside my private parts. I was afraid of telling my mother.”
Her mother, identified only as Ellen, reported the incident at the Ajegunle Police Division which led to the suspect’s arrest on March 3.
PUNCH Metro saw that the results of medical tests conducted on the girl at the Ajeromi General Hospital, Lagos, stated, “Hymen broken with bruises around the infroitus.”
The result, which was signed by one Dr I.A. Dauda, also stated that she suffered from “whitish foul smelling vaginal discharge.”
Barryneh, who hails from Rivers State, admitted giving the girl N10 to buy biscuit, but denied raping her. He added that the allegation was an attempt to blackmail him.
He said, “I work with a private security outfit. She and her friends were playing when she came to me that she needed N10 to buy biscuit. She stood somewhere in my room waiting for the money. I was watching a love movie titled, ‘Naked Weapon’. It involved sex. I was surprised when her mother reported at the station that I raped her daughter. I never had sex with the girl. I only gave her the money.”
 A police prosecutor, Woman Sergeant Francisca Okere, brought Barryneh before an Apapa Magistrate’s Court on two counts of rape.
Okere told the court that the offence contravened sections 137 and 259 of the Criminal Law of Lagos State, 2011.
The charges read in part, “That you, Freedom Barryneh, sometime in August 2015, at about 14.30 hours on Akali Street, Ajegunle, Apapa, Lagos, in the Apapa Magisterial District, did penetrate sexually with your penis the privare parts of an eight-year-old girl, thereby committing an offence contrary to and punishable under Section 259 of the Criminal Law of Lagos State, Nigeria, 2011.”
The defendant pleaded not guilty to the charge before the presiding magistrate, Mrs. O.A. Adegite, who admitted him to bail in the sum of N100,000 with two sureties in like sum.
While adjourning for March 24, 2016, Adegite added that the sureties must be gainfully employed and must present to the court evidence of tax payments. 

Source: PUNCH.

Science Reveals the Benefits of Prayer


Research continues to discover how prayer helps people

The first benefit of prayer is self-control. Prayer appears to help boost people’s will power, making it easier for them to exercise self-control.

Prayer makes people nicer. Across multiple experiments, researchers found that having participants pray for someone reduced aggressive responses to being angered or provoked. This research suggests that prayer may be a good anger management tactic.
Prayer similarly makes it easier for people to forgive. Researchers found that having participants pray for romantic partners and friends made those individuals more likely to forgive their partners and friends. And is consistent with other research suggesting that prayer improves romantic relationships.

Prayer is also relevant to romantic relationships. Researchers found that having couples pray together increased both feelings of unity and trust and did so more than having couples talk about positive experiences. This work suggests that prayer is more than just an emotionally positive experience. It helps bring couples together.

Prayer helps to cope with stress. There is quite a bit of research focused on the different ways that people use prayer to cope with a variety of psychological and physical health challenges. Research is also discovering how the content of a prayer matters. For instance, prayer that is focused on showing thankfulness and/or getting closer to God has a positive effect on mental well-being. Prayer that is focused on asking God for something does not positively influence well-being and may even harm it.

In all, researchers continue to explore the power of prayer. Over 50% of the world pray every day and many more pray at least once a week. Though scientists can't tell people whether or not God hears their prayers, they can help them understand the measurable benefits they receive from praying.

Teaching Girls the Truth About Sex by Temma Ehrenfeld

Remember the slogan, "Take back the night,"? It is a call for women to protect themselves from sexual violence. A foundation of that name has been holding powerful yearly events on campus for decades.
We must teach young women to defend themselves from violence and to actively seek its opposite. We can teach them to take back the night for love and pleasure.   
The increasing openness about sex seems to be serving male orgasm much more than female pleasure. Girls are having sex and see porn often before they even know how to have an orgasm.
Isn't that putting the cart way before the horse?
The largest survey of American sexual behavior in recent years found that only a third of girls between ages 14 and 17 masturbated. Fewer than half had even tried. They might have boyfriends playing with their private parts, but that doesn't mean that they ever came.
When I was in my twenties I passed around the book For Yourself: the fulfillment of female sexuality, by Lonnie Barbach, which taught women how to masturbate to cum Many of my friends who were already having sex thanked me for it and reported progress. We needed instruction.
Meanwhile teens are seeing clips of strangers having sex: 93 percent of boys and 62 percent of girls will see online porn, according to one study. Most may see it first inadvertently, as display ads on file-sharing sites or through a mistaken click.
Boys expect oral sex but rarely give it. Girls are also having anal sex: 20 percent of women 18 to 19 have, 40 percent by ages 20 to 24.
What are the chances that girls are getting orgasms giving boys blow jobs or receiving anal sex?
This all sounds like male-oriented sex to me. But if you want further proof, researchers from the Center for Sexual Health Promotion at Indiana University found that 70 percent of women report pain in their sexual encounters, if anal sex is included. Excluding anal sex, a third of young women have pain during sex. And they often tell researchers that they consider a sexual encounter successful if the male came; their own satisfaction isn't necessary.
I don't blame boys. They're young and they're learning. It's time for parents to teach our kids to link love, responsibility, joy and pleasure.
I'll confess that when I was in high school, a boy gave me a bunch of queludes and raped me. I couldn't even pick up my hand or head to protest I was so zonked.
I also didn't tell my feminist mother, who loved me dearly. Or my father.
Why? I thought sex was about giving boys an orgasm and this was just an extension of that idea.   
I propose new coming of age ceremonies that provide an expected discussion of love and sex. What if every girl at 16 had a party attended only by her female friends and family members or older women she was close to. She would pick the guest list, knowing that the members of the group would be talking about questions like "What I most like about being a woman,"  "What I wish I knew about love when I was sixteen," and "The most important thing about love to me now." Also, "The most important thing I've learned about sex." "What I wish I'd known sooner about sex." And so on.
People could get creative, putting on skits or giving girls books or sex toys.  
Boys could have a gathering of men to talk about sex as well, with discussions about how to know if a girl was really willing and how to give her pleasure.
Why leave our children to learn about sex from each other and from porn and clinical information in a class room?
Our world is teaching kids to have "junk sex," the same way we feed them junk food. The "slow sex" movement focuses on building desire in a woman through slow touching of her entire body (men like it, too, I can testify).
Teens can spend an hour exploring sensations--what it does feel like to have someone glide a finger along your upper arm, your inner arm? What happens if your partner kisses your toes? Let's talk about "sexplay" instead of "foreplay," which makes having orgasms the star event. Let's talk about looking into each other's eyes and staying in touch with each other, instead of going off into private fantasies. Let's remind girls not to hold their breath. Most of all, let's tell our daughters that they don't need to let their bodies be used to make a boy have an orgasm. Fair is fair.
Teens are curious about sex because it's new and can transform their lives  For many of us, the partners we choose and the way we communicate with them are enormous factors in our lives. The first lesson a girl can learn is choose someone who genuinely wants to share and give her pleasure. Then she can experiment with how. If girls focus on their pleasure, the chances are we'll be seeing much more kissing and hugging and teasing your arm with a feather.  The first lesson a boy can learn is to choose someone who inspires generosity, teaches patience and helps him expand. Men are also missing their full sexual and romantic potential. We can learn these lessons from a same-sex partner, too.  
Barbach has also written a book for couples highly ranked by psychologists: For Each Other: sharing sexual intimacy. If your daughter already has a partner, consider giving it to her.
Read a book from the "slow sex" movement for yourself if you'd like to have a grander vision of the potential for your romantic and sexual life. Then decide if you'd like to give any of them to your daughter, who may be 18, 25, or 35 or 50. Here are two:
Slow Sex: The Path to Fulfilling and Sustainable Sexuality, by Diana Richardson
Slow Sex: The Art and Craft of the Female, by Nicole Dadeone.
Enjoy. If you have a talk with your daughter or a talk with your wife or husband, and good things come of it, let me know. 

Why Women Are More Religious Than Men

Women are more religious than men.
They see religion as more important in their lives and go to church more often according to surveys. Why? Perhaps religious rituals are a form of precaution. Women’s greater religiosity is a side effect of their risk aversion.
Health researchers know that women take better care of themselves (2). They avoid unnecessary risk taking, and are much less likely to die in car accidents because they drive more safely. Low female risk-taking was favored by natural selection because women taking fewer risks were more likely to survive and therefore more likely to raise children to maturity.
On the other hand, male risk-taking was favored because riskier men acquired higher social status by not backing down from confrontation with peers, for instance. This is why men are most fearless, risk-taking, and violent, in young adulthood, an age that is critical for establishing a pecking order amongst peers. If a country wanted to get rid of most of the violent crime, it could do so by locking up all young men between the ages of 15-35 years!
One feature of risk-taking is neglecting to take precautions in matters of personal safety, such as wearing a seatbelt. Religious rituals and prayer are also precautions of a sort. Through prayer, a person might relieve their anxiety about any number of potential threats to personal well-being, from harsh weather, or doing poorly in an exam, to violence, or illness.
Women may be more religious because they are more interested in being safe in other respects. They are more likely to receive medical checkups when they are well, less likely to abuse alcohol, or smoke, and more likely to take regular exercise to control their weight (2).
Interestingly, as more women join the fultime workforce, and compete over high-status jobs, their risk-taking profile increases. For many categories of risky behavior, such as abuse of alcohol and reckless driving, young women are now more similar to young men. Yet, this phenomenon is an anomaly not seen in other societies throughout history.
The majority of women remain somewhat more religious than men and this mirrors the greater cautiousness of feminine behavior. It is a good idea to minimize risk if you want to live a long healthy life. Yet, there is a cost. That cost is increased anxiety.
Anxiety is a protective emotion that keeps us away from threats to life and limb, whether that is working on top of roofs, or sawing down large trees. There are very few female roofers or lumberjacks (2). Indeed, every dangerous occupation, from fishing to mining is dominated by males who are overwhelmingly the gender that dies in industrial accidents such as boats being lost in a storm or mine shafts caving in.
These gender differences in risk-taking are declining in the modern world as women become more involved in all areas of employment but women are still lower on risk-taking, on average. The evolved gender difference is alive and well at the level of emotional predispositions. Women are more anxious than men, and that anxiety means they take fewer risks which is why they are less likely to die in accidents.
Chronic anxiety has one major cost, however. It causes depression. This helps explain why women are twice as likely to be diagnosed with clinical depression compared to men (Of course, they are also more likely to seek help for emotional problems whereas many depressed men go untreated).
So women’s higher religiosity is most likely a side effect of their risk aversion. Religion functions to reduce anxiety and helps people to feel protected against threatening events (1). That is why many passengers are seen to pray when their plane takes off but almost no one prays when driving to work. Although driving is objectively more dangerous, commuters feel more in control than airline passengers.
Women are more religious than men because religion is a source of emotional security rather like a child’s security blanket. Being generally more anxious than men, women have more need for religion to allay their fears.

Over 50% ISIS supporters vote Britain as next Terrorist target

ISIS supporters have chosen London as their next attack target in a new sickening web poll conducted by the terrorist group, where over 50% of it's supporters jubilantly chose Great Britain as the next place to cause mayhem following the recent attack in Belgium airport and metro.



On a forum page, one user set up the question poll:
'What will be the color of the Eiffel Tower in the next attacks?'
The question came after the Eiffel Tower was lit up in the colours of the Belgian flag, in solidarity to the victims of the Brussels attacks.

America and Russia were also selected as prime targets for a terror attack, according to jihadi supporters online.
'The Islamic State will attack London, Washington, Rome and all the infidels' capitals,' tweeted one ISIS supporter.
'The Crusaders are blundered and confused. Yesterday Paris, today Brussels, and they don't know where will be the next attack,' commented another social media user.

Source : DailyMail

Wednesday, 23 March 2016

'Batman v Superman' could rumble to a $300 million worldwide weekend

Watch the trailer for 'Batman v Superman'
Watch the trailer for 'Batman v Superman'

Two of the comic book world's biggest heavyweights, Batman and Superman, are ready to square off on the big screen, and possibly knocking out a few box office records.

"Batman v Superman: Dawn of Justice," opens in 4,200 theaters domestically this weekend and is projected to bring in a North American opening weekend of around $150 million, according to box office analysts.
This would put the film in striking distance of the March box office record that belongs to "The Hunger Games," which made $152.5 million in 2012.
The film by DC Entertainment and Warner Bros., which like CNN, is owned by Time Warner (TWX), also opens in 65 markets around the world on Friday including the world's second biggest market, China. This roll out has led analysts to predict a global opening that could gross over $300 million this weekend.
The superhero mashup starring Henry Cavill as the Man of Steel and Ben Affleck as the Caped Crusader could be one of 2016's biggest blockbuster films thanks to the DC heroes finally sharing the screen, and also an early spring opening.
batman v superman faceoff
"Batman v Superman: Dawn of Justice" brings together the two comic book icons. Will it pay off at the box office?


With a release on Easter weekend, rather than in the competitive summer, it clears the way for the two heroes to pummel the box office for weeks to come.
Online ticket site Fandango reports that the film has topped the presales for any superhero film in the site's history. This includes blockbusters like last summer's "The Avengers: Age of Ultron" and 2012's "The Dark Knight Rises."
However, the box office for "Batman v Superman" may run into some Kryptonite thanks to harsh reviews.
It holds a 40% score on review site Rotten Tomatoes with some critics like Entertainment Weekly's Chris Nashawaty saying the film is "another numbing smash-and-bash orgy of CGI mayhem."
But according to Eric Handler, media and entertainment analyst for MKMPartners, reviews probably won't keep fans from seeing the movie on its opening weekend.
"A core audience who likes these characters will go see the film this weekend," Handler said. "Where the reviews may hurt it is in its second weekend."

Handler added that the film's two hour and 31 minute run time may factor into its ticket sales.
Yet, if Batman and Superman can defeat the Lex Luthor's of the world, they shouldn't have too much of a problem with a long run time.

New film "Les Innocentes" leaves controversies of the church

Review: “Les Innocentes”

A new film is a stark exploration of the position of women in wartime

MAY 1945 was the end of the second world war in Europe, but for many people east of the Elbe, the fear did not end then. “Les Innocentes” (also called “Agnus Dei”), a new Franco-Polish film directed by Anne Fontaine, opens at a convent in Poland in December 1945. The nuns were raped repeatedly by advancing Soviet troops; “I can still smell their odour”, one of them says later. At least seven are pregnant. Their only hope is Mathilde, a young French doctor played by Lou de Laâge, who is in Poland with the Red Cross. What follows is less a bold statement about the Catholic Church. It is a sadly universal tale of women in wartime, who this time happen to be nuns.
In the convent, shot in cold blues and whites, two worlds collide. The trouser-clad Mathilde, raised by communist parents, is rationalistic and unerring. An early scene shows her effortlessly performing a Caesarean by the light of a single Kerosene lamp. Meanwhile, the pregnant nuns squirm at their changing bodies, trying to reconcile the brutality they have suffered with their faith. “What is simple for you isn’t for us,” says Sister Maria, a nun who speaks French, convincingly played by Agata Buzek. Yet as due-dates loom, the affinity grows. The flinty Sister Maria reveals she was once a “coquette” and struggled with celibacy. And after a night-time encounter at a Red Army checkpoint, Mathilde realises she is vulnerable too. Fully bilingual, the film flits between the nuns’ Polish and the medics’ French, sometimes to poignant effect.
For the producers, history was more of a muse than a straightjacket. Mathilde’s story was inspired by that of Madeleine Pauliac, a French doctor who worked in Poland during the war. Mass rape by advancing Soviet troops, in Poland as elsewhere, has been well-documented. The Holocaust is also clearly in the background: Mathilde’s French lover, the only significant male character in the film, lost his parents in Bergen-Belsen, a Nazi concentration camp in Germany (“Yes, I’m a Jew,” he says impatiently in Polish, arriving at the convent to help the nuns give birth). His almost caricatured dislike of Poles—the ones he liked ended up in the Warsaw Ghetto, he says—hint at the themes of Pawel Pawlikowski’s Oscar-winning “Ida” (2013), which touches on a Polish Catholic family's involvement in the murder of Jews during the war, and which also opens at a convent.
More significant is what is left unsaid. There was scandal at the convent long before Mathilde arrived, Sister Maria tells Mother Superior, who must decide what to do with the babies. In a twist of irony, she is played by Agata Kulesza, who starred as the steely Jewish aunt and former Stalinist prosecutor in “Ida”; her latest role has all the grit but none of the glamour. Even today, Poland’s convents remain black boxes. A new book called “Nuns leave quietly”, published by a left-wing publishing house and based on interviews with those who left, paints a troubling picture of life inside. Meanwhile, the church remains out of bounds to criticism. Last month a presenter on Polish public television introduced “Spotlight”, the Oscar-winning American film about an investigation into child abuse by Catholic clergy, as a film about “a paedophile scandal in Boston”: no “priests” or “bishops”, no “church”.
“Les Innocentes” leaves these controversies to others. When it opened in Poland this month, criticism focused on the nuns’  Benedictine habits; there is no evidence that nuns from that order “suffered the tragedy shown in the film”, wrote a nuns’ organisation in a statement. More broadly, Catholic circles have reacted warmly; the film treats the nuns’ plight with “with modesty and audacity”, said the head of an organisation of monks and nuns in France, where the film was released on February 10th. At a screening at the Vatican, it was heralded as a “therapeutic film for the Church”, the producers say. Some viewers will wish the therapy did not stop there.