These days there are many marriages ending up in divorce.
However, investigations show that infidelity is one major cause of marriage
dissolution in both in Nigeria and all over the world.
It is really not an easy task getting to know that your spouse will
cheat on you, however, there are signs which one could look out for.
Below are certain traits which a man could watch-out for in his wife,
it has been tested that if a lady posses some of these 7 traits, then
there is a great chance that she will cheat on her husband.
1. The core party girl
If she loves the crowd, always longing for the party, ever ready to
groove; it scary because she is more likely to cheat. Most parties are
often held at night and there are so many things that happen in the
night.
Research shows that contrary to what people think, humans and ladies
mostly let their guards down when it is dark. It is at that period that
they are more vulnerable to having an affair.
There are many other factors that could lead a woman to cheat, from
having a big ego down to suffering from very low self esteem. So men
must make good efforts to understand their women better. She could have
certain needs which you are not meeting, it is left for you to notice
and make amends or allow her find the answer outside.
For women whose needs are not met, a discussion with your spouse is
necessary. With two good heads together, you both can find solutions to
what is amiss. Its pays to stay true to one faithful partner.
2. She’s an addict
Drugs and alcohol have a great influence on people’s behavior, hence,
if she meddles into these things, then there is a great chance that she
could easily be lured into an affair; sometimes without her heart fully
in the act.
Research
shows that female alcoholics are susceptible to infidelity because
their inhibitions will be lowered and their judgment impaired.Sometimes
she cannot even comprehend that she is actually cheating on her man.
3. The broken woman
Hell hath no fury like the anger of a woman, a woman who has been
cheated before might seek to have her own pound of flesh with other men.
If a her spouse has cheated on her, she might try to even the score by cheating on him in return.
There are so many women who have dabbled into sexual affairs just to get back at their cheating partners.
4. The adventurer seeking to make a statement
If for her sex is a means to make a statement with regards to her
femininity, then she is likely to look outside. Once her identity as a
woman is wrapped around sex, then it wont matter how many other men she
sleeps with.
Playing the seductress will also be part of her roles, she will love
seducing men to sleep with her is the focal point of her life.You one
needs an oracle to be told that if all these defines her, then she will
not be faithful to one man.
In the same vein, if she’s the type who likes to live dangerously,
she’ll cheat just for the thrill of it, or for the excitement of doing
something forbidden, or for the challenge of seeing if she can pull it
off without getting caught.
Fiddling
with her phones, having all the online thrills will not do for her; a
woman who is easily bored, or who leads a dull, routine life may cheat
on her mate just to alleviate her boredom or add some excitement to her
life. ‘
Also women can be sex addicts, in the past these women were referred
to as nymphomaniacs. This is a medical condition that requires
professional medical help. If she has a sex drive greater than her
partner’s, then it becomes a problem.
If her sex drive greatly exceeds the sex drive of her husband or
boyfriend, or her spouse, then she might need to get it from someone who
is more fit and experienced.
It is more dangerous if the woman has more sexual experience than her
man. If she has led a very active séx life, or has had lots of sex
partners before settling down, she will find it extremely difficult to
stay faithful to just one man.
5. Attention seeker
If she is the type that thinks the world revolves around her, then
she would do anything to continue getting attention from wherever,
whenever and however. There is a great possibility that a woman who
constantly craves attention may cheat on her mate if she feels she’s not
getting enough attention from him.
It takes another man who understands that need for attention to sweep her off her feet and before you know it, she’s lost.
In the same vein, if she is a materialistic woman, she is likely to
have an affair with a wealthy man because of the material things he can
provide.
Once the other man has more cash to go around, and can afford all the
luxury that thrills her soul, then she is very likely to follow the
money.
6. Bad company
If her friends are the type that flirt and cheat, there is a great
chance that she will join them when eventually she fails to beat them.
The power of peer pressure can never be underestimated, every one can
wield when the heat is turned on. All it takes to show her what they
would term “the light” and then the lamb will evolve into a lion.
7. She disobeys the law of attraction (Keeps too many male friends)
Many affairs begin as close friendship with members of the opposite
sex. Hence, it becomes a problem if she keeps too many males as friends.
They may seem harmless initially, but with times spent emotions will
grow and an affair will kick off.
It is no secret that the closer the woman is to her platonic male
friend, the more likely it is that he will eventually end up becoming
her lover.
