5 sex related questions you are too embarrassed to ask — answered by Bhakti Paun Sharma on Healthsite!

Have a question nagging your mind but too embarrassed to ask. Here are the answers to five such sex related queries.

Bhakti Paun Sharma

With the fear of being mocked at, many people continue to live with half knowledge. Haven’t you often guessed or assumed answers for the questions which you think are too dumb to ask anyone else? Yes we are talking about questions related to sex. From simple questions like how to guide him inside you to what oral sex is, asking anything related to sex is always embarrassing and awkward. We help you by answering  few queries you may have on your mind but are embarrassed to ask:
1. What if a condom slips inside you?
It is a valid question and can be scary for some. Though it is not so common, but what if it does happen? Calm down. Try to remove the condom in the intact state from your vagina. Wash the area properly and take an emergency contraceptive to avoid any mishaps.
2. What is squirting?
Squirting is the discharge of white fluid from the vagina during sex or foreplay. It’s normal and indicates that your G-spot is stimulated perfectly. Squirting is often mistaken for urine leakage, but it is not. It is white in colour and slightly sticky. And do tell your boyfriend that squirting is not common in real life, unlike porn.
3. Can you pee during sex?
Why would you want to do that? There can be an urge to pee during sex and most women want to pee immediately after the act but it’s usually not a good idea. Having the urge to pee means you’re almost near orgasm. There can be an episode or urine leak if your bladder is full but it is rare and for all you know it may be the vaginal fluid that’s leaked (squirting) and not pee. So don’t be embarrassed.
4. I get turned on by lesbian porn despite being heterosexual. Is that normal?
Of course it is normal. In fact, a study suggests women often get turned on when watching girl-on-girl porn and it has no connection with your sexual preference. More women than men enjoy watching same sex porn. Girls know exactly what they want and hence lesbian sex videos can be a big turn on. Watching lesbian sex is just like fantasising about someone during masturbation.
5. My boyfriend’s penis is curved. Does he have a medical condition?
Ask him if he experiences pain during erection or intercourse. If the answer is no, then there is no need to worry. Just like size of penis varies, they can be curved sideways or down instead of straight up during an erection. For all you know, your G-spot might be exactly on the side his penis curves, making it easy for him to hit it.